The twin flame journey has been a roller coaster for me over the last 5 years. I have been become a fountain of knowledge by taking it all in that I have heard & learned about twin flames. There is so much information out there on twin flames: books, blogs, articles, social media posts etc. It can be overwhelming and mind boggling for you to understand & embrace the twin flame journey.
You must discover how to make it fit in your life. In this blog post, I will go over how you can make it fit in your life based on your beliefs and truths.
I’m sure your first question is “how can I make it fit?” The simple answer lies with how you feel about it. Do you love it? Do you hate it? Do you go back and forth between loving and hating it? You have to get real with yourself on what your view and perspective is. How does being on the twin flame journey make you feel? Do you put your focus more on our twin flame instead of yourself or vice versa?
To answer any of the questions above, you first must discover how you feel about it. The twin flame journey is about you - not your twin flame or anyone else - just YOU. Unplugging and detaching from the white noise of the information from what the spiritual community says about twin flames. You know all of it - the good, the bad, and the ugly. Another way to unplug and detach is to look at the twin flame information like a collective card reading with tarot or oracle cards. Decide what speaks to your soul & release what doesn’t speak to your soul. The twin flame journey does not magically end when you separate from your twin flame. You don’t stop being a twin flame. Being a twin flame is about finding yourself and coming into union with your twin flame happens when you both choose to unite with each other. It is a continuing process that has many different outcomes based on free will decisions.
I have embraced being a twin flame and am in union with myself. I have healed so much in the last 3 years and the relationship that I have with myself has improved tremendously. Being a twin flame coach is part of my purpose and what I came here to do in this lifetime to help people.
For a moment I want you to go back in time to when you first met your twin flame and remember how you felt. This is the day you met them (not anything that happened after that). Then go back to when things went sour, got complicated, and/or separated and remember how you felt (I feel it was the opposite of how you felt when you first them right?). Now come back to the present and do not take that trip down memory lane of anger, sadness, and heartbreak. How do you feel about your twin flame and the connection now (today). Do you feel the same as when you first met them or when it all fall apart? Do you feel different now?
Side Note: If you feel the same and have the same energy, head space, & heart space, that is ok. No judgement here - only love. Healing happens when you are ready. Healing happens when you decide it’s time to heal. The same goes for your twin flame.
Now let’s get back to how you feel. What does your twin flame journey mean to you? Go deep down and honest. Remember you are only sharing this with yourself. Take all that you have heard, learned, personally experienced and morph it all into an answer. Your answer is your belief and what you believe to be true about twin flames. There is no wrong answer. Your twin flame journey is for you and is about you.
I have come to believe that each twin flame connection is it’s own entity. Each connection has 2 people who have to make free will decisions in their life that will dictate how the their connection unfolds - separately or together. That is why there are no 2 twin flame connections that are exactly the same. There may be similarities with another twin flame connection but nothing exact. Twin Flames are similar to twin siblings. Two different people with 2 different physical bodies and souls but have a connection energetically that will not have with another person.
Understanding what the twin flame journey means to you will open the door. It is your journey and you should be the one who decides how it all plays out.
I am merely a guide/twin flame coach to help those who are guided to me. I put out content on my platforms, work with clients either one on one or through group coaching with the channeled information I get from my spirit guides and through my personal experiences. I am forever the student and is why my perspective changed to being more open to twin flames. Once I detached from what other people were saying, I learned to stay in my own lane and to go within. That is when I heard twin flames are not what I think they are…they are more.
That is why I feel it’s important to go back to the beginning and see the twin flame journey from a new pair of eyes. I am looking at my twin flame journey from a healed pair of eyes. I want to show people it’s safe to face your shadow side because what comes out of it is pure bliss. You find yourself, your purpose, and life just has meaning.
The journey awakened me….
I found my life purpose…..
I found myself…..
I found pure bliss 💗🦋