Setting boundaries is necessary as you go about your day to day life. These boundaries help you teach how others how to treat you. When you don’t set boundaries or don’t enforce them, you allow others to come into your space to walk all over you and treat you with disrespect. This blog serves as a guide to help you set boundaries to create the shift you need and to take your power back.
The tips below are on how to set boundaries. I intuitively pulled cards from the Power of Surrender deck by Judith Orloff MD to bring guidance on how to set the boundaries. Please only take what speaks to your soul. If it doesn’t speak to your soul, release it and let it fly.
Surrender To The Magic Of Who You Are: We all have magic in us. Even in the mundane aspects of life remember that you are a magical being with a uniqueness and worth come from just being you!
Channeled message: Accept who you are. Live your life for you. Your life = your way. #create
Surrender to Complete Healing: Open fully to the loving compassionate forces of the universe that support your physical emotional and spiritual healing.
Channeled message: Commit to your healing and you will gain a new perspective. #selfawareness
Surrender To Your Prayer: Give yourself over completely to prayer. When you pray from your heart you will be heard throughout the universe and answers and support will arrive.
Channeled message: Surrender what keeps you stuck and in the people pleasing energy. Choose yourself. #youfirst
Surrender The Idea You Can Fix Someone: It’s time for a relationship to shift. It doesn’t work to try to fix someone. Each person must be accountable for his or her own healing.
Channeled message: You can’t fix another person. The only person you can fix is yourself. #focusonyou
Surrender To Divine Timing: Sometimes divine timing may differ from your ego’s timing. If a goal isn’t manifesting “fast enough” according to your ego, be patient, and trust the universal flow.
Channeled message: All will unfold naturally. Don’t let a divine counterpart treat you bad, walk all over you, or completely disappear because of a connection you have with them. Choose yourself. #selflove
Surrender Your Need To Always Be Right: Give others the gift of letting them be right. Be yielding, not rigid. This will help you resolve conflicts and improve your relationships.
Channeled message: Sometimes the best response is no response. Walking away from an argument, toxic person/situation, or conflict is the best solution. #focusonsolution
Surrender To Your Intuition: Tune into your inner voice. Be aware of any gut feelings, flashes, feelings, or “Aha moments” that come through to guide you.
Channeled message: Listening to your intuition helps you decipher who makes you feel and who makes you feel bad. #choosefeelinggood
The overall guidance is to be firm fair and consistent with setting boundaries. Don’t cave in because of guilt or fear or you will repeat a cycle. Look at setting boundaries as learning a new lifestyle - it takes practice. Remember Rome was not built in a day, it will take time. You got this.
I do hope this blog brought you clarity and guidance on setting boundaries. If you would like to work with me, please go to my Etsy Shop to book a guidance reading or guidance session : https://www.etsy.com/shop/ButterflyIntuition
Wishing you a beautiful day, night, or afternoon! Love & light, Xtina