When I began my spiritual awakening, tarot card readings became a part of my daily life. They were how spirit would talk to me. Sending me messages about my twin, life purpose, and answers to any questions that I had at the time. I became obsessed with finding as many readers as possible on IG and YouTube. I thought every general reading I listened to or read was for me. My obsession halted my spiritual growth and moving into the place I am now.
I ignored my intuition when I would have that feeling that a reading was not for me. I would force myself to find a situation in my life that resonated with the reading. I became confused on who my twin flame was. I honestly thought another man who came into my life after my twin ghosted me was my twin. I spent time with him even thought my intuition was screaming for me to stop. I took a moment to stop and listen. I found out he was lying to me about his situation and decided to walk away.
After that karmic lesson, I made a commitment to always follow my intuition in every situation. When I listened to or read a general reading and started to feel that uneasy feeling, I would close my eyes and ask if this message for me. I would get no. I would click off the video or stop reading the post. I then would ask if this reader for me. Sometimes I would get a no and sometimes I would get a yes. My intuition guided me to unfollow the readers I did not resonate with and only follow the ones I do resonate with on my personal IG and YouTube accounts. My blog business social media accounts are setup to follow the readers that I get a good vibe from and want to support since my life purpose is to be a full time reader one day.
A lot of readers offer free general readings. A general reading is just that - a general reading. The reader is tapping into the energy of a collective which can be hundreds of people at a time. They are not tuning into a specific person or situation. When I listen to a general reading, I learned to put some rules into place that help keep me grounded so I would not get triggered. I would like to share these rules with you to help you.
Before listening to the video or reading the post, take a deep breath and close your eyes asking spirit to provide the answers that you need to know.
Only take what resonates and leave the rest behind. You will know if a message is for you because it will feel like the reader is speaking directly to you. If you are trying to make it fit then the message is not for you so please do not take it.
Ask spirit if this video, post, or reader is for you. If you hear no, then click off, stop reading, and unfollow the reader. Sometimes a reader can resonate for a time to help you learn something and then you move on.
If you want a reading that is more geared towards your specific situation, then you can purchase a private reading from a reader who resonates with you. Spirit will always lead to the readers who can help you. Remember a true spiritual reader/advisor/teacher will not message you offering you their services.
Wishing you a beautiful & magical day