One of the most profound lessons you will ever learn will be about love. Love of family, love of friends, love of divine counterpart partners, love of life, and love of self. Being to able to be vulnerable and completely open to love will allow you to call in divine love in all areas of your life. Especially with another person. Being able to call in a divine love counterpart that resonates with your heart and soul. No matter what type of partner/connection (label or no label) you resonate with, opening your heart to healing past traumas, wounds and heartbreaks are key.
When you are closed off to love, you will repel true love. You will repel the one thing you want the most - true love that you dream of with another person. You repel it out of fear, being guarded, fearful of the past repeating itself, feeling unworthy, and feeling unlovable because you do not love yourself. Being in this energy allows your ego to take over our mind. The ego will bring fearful stories about why things are happening, what people think of you, and just why things in your life are difficult or challenging.
Being closed off to love is a defense mechanism. You defend yourself out of fear. If someone broke your heart in the past or you were raised in an environment that lacked love fully or partly can cause a barrier to you being open to open your heart up to love. An unloving environment, family upbringing, or relationship can create low self esteem, becoming insecure, and commitment issues. It will also affect the type of love counterparts you attract such as people who are emotionally unavailable, in & out energy, and narcissistic/toxic behavior.
Committing to healing your heart will help you overcome past traumas and heartbreaks especially with failed relationships. A failed relationship can bring about fear, closed off to love, allowing yourself to be treated in a way that does not feel good, making excuses on why you can’t heal & move on and codependency that can lead to attachments to people outcomes and situations. People will often stay attached to a person or situation because of a label - such as a twin flame. People get attached to labels and that can get them stuck. Regardless if you resonate with a label or you do not resonate with a label, you should never allow another person or situation to take your power away and allow you to get stuck.
Below are some tips on how you can begin the process of your healing journey to heal the heart and open the heart chakra. Butterfly Love Reminder: It is entirely up to you to heal and do your work. No one can do it for you.
Tip 1 | Identifying Your Triggers: By doing this, you will see where they stem for, figuring out how you can heal (you can do it on your own or decide if you will need professional help)
Tip 2 | Working On Yourself: By doing this, you will see patterns in your life that need to be broken and healed.
Tip 3 | Setting Boundaries: By doing this, you will set boundaries with people, situations, thoughts, patterns, and beliefs. You will be able to successfully walk away from anyone or anything that no longer serves you. You should always be in the energy of something or someone that makes you feel good. Anything or anyone that makes you feel bad should be let go of.
If you would like hear more about the heart chakra, please view the video that is on my YouTube channel from the Chakra Series on the Heart Chakra: https://youtu.be/4C1ThJGRMqw
I do offer a Chakra Guidance Reading. It is a 45 minute pre-recorded guidance reading to help you with gaining guidance and insight on all 7 chakras. Please click the link to book yours today: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1019357132/chakra-guidance-reading-pre-recorded-45?ref=shop_home_active_1
Have a beautiful day! Love & light, Xtina